when...

you have ppl that went through a hard life, they will :

1. continue to live their life rough
2. take it easy and do wats needed when its needed
3. enjoy the after glow

apparently i see no.1 ppl more. its not really like we dun wanna help, its just that, when they are too ubber overly fucked up bored coz they cant do anything which might make them feel useless like some trash in the house. well, they just wanna take everything all up again on their shoulder like in their glory days.

so, when the second generation sees the third generation not giving the first generation a helping hand. who is at fault? of coz the kids. its all, always and will be the kids' fault. regardless of the first generation wanting to cure their uneventful life, trying to prove that they still have worth in their rusty painful bones.

but really. cant the ppl i know take it easy already? i dun wanna see anyone dying off coz our help was rejected and our care is but a nuisances to them. and yes, that annoyed me too.